{"id":132,"date":"2015-04-01T15:47:24","date_gmt":"2015-04-01T14:47:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/slowlylife.wordpress.com\/?p=132"},"modified":"2021-09-13T10:33:27","modified_gmt":"2021-09-13T09:33:27","slug":"the-art-of-loving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hoangthilinhchi.com\/?p=132","title":{"rendered":"The Art of Loving"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote>\n<ul>\n<li>1- The active character of love can be described by stating that love is primarily\u00a0<em>giving<\/em>, not receiving. [\u2026]\u00a0Giving is the highest expression of potency.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>2- Love is a power which produces love; impotence is the inability to produce love.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>3- Love is the active concern for the life and the growth of that which we love.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>4- In the act of loving, of giving myself, in the act of penetrating the other person, I find myself, I discover myself, I discover us both, I discover man.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>5- Mother is warmth, mother is food, mother is euphoric state of satisfaction and security.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>6- Mature love says: \u201cI need you because I love you.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>7- There is only one proof for the presence of love: the depth of the relationship, and the aliveness and strength in each person concerned, this is the fruit by which love is recognized.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>8- Paradoxically, the ability to be alone is the condition for the ability to love.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>9- What could the grown-up person achieve if he had the child\u2019s patience and its concentration in the pursuits which are important to him!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>10- To be loved, and to love, need courage, the courage to judge certain values as of ultimate concern \u2013 and to take the jump and stake everything on these values.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/blockquote>\n<ul>\n<li>From Ploy&#8217;s blog \u00a0(<a href=\"http:\/\/lanasomething.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Lanasomething.com<\/a>)<\/li>\n<li>H\u00ecnh t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb trang n\u00e0o<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>H\u00f4m nay \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 m\u1ec7t qu\u00e1 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n vi\u1ebft g\u00ec th\u00f4i copy b\u00e0i tr\u00ean facebook. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n s\u1ebd chuy\u1ec3n h\u1ebft notes tr\u00ean FB v\u00e0o blog v\u1eady<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"579\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/hoangthilinhchi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/img_201403031152056918.jpg?resize=500%2C579&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3880\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/hoangthilinhchi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/img_201403031152056918.jpg?w=500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/hoangthilinhchi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/img_201403031152056918.jpg?resize=259%2C300&amp;ssl=1 259w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1- The active character of love can be described by stating that love is primarily\u00a0giving, not receiving. [\u2026]\u00a0Giving is the highest expression of potency. 2- Love is a power which produces love; impotence is the inability to produce love. 3- Love is the active concern for the life and the growth of that which we [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3308,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-132","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-hieu"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/hoangthilinhchi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/Neutral-Minimal-Portfolio-Presentation-7.png?fit=2240%2C1260&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2984,"url":"https:\/\/hoangthilinhchi.com\/?p=2984","url_meta":{"origin":132,"position":0},"title":"The Big Bang Theory &#8211; My most beloved series of all time, ever!","author":"alittlebeasty","date":"31\/10\/2021","format":false,"excerpt":"Recently everyone has been crazy about Friends the Reunion, which I also love, but for me, it is not that over the moon. 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